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Who owns B. G. Boydston Funeral Home?
Bobby and Miriam Boydston purchased B. G. Boydston Funeral Home in 1995 from Bob (B.G.) and Mary Boydston. Bob and Mary purchased the business from Loren and Ethel Brown (Mary's parents) in 1960. Loren and Ethel started the business as Brown Funeral Home in 1930. For over 70 years the funeral home has continued to be family owned and operated. Bobby is also the manager and State designated "Licensee in Charge" of operations for the funeral home. We are proud to be members of the Lindsay community and are grateful for the loyalty of so many families who have put their trust in us over the years.Please check out our staff page for more information on other members of our team.
Who is responsible to make the funeral arrangements?
A spouse, next of kin or legal representative generally can make arrangements for disposition of the deceased. Oklahoma Statute (21. O.S.§ 1158) provides succession laws regarding the next of kin. Generally the next of kin are in the following order: a. spouse b. adult children c. parents and d. brothers/sisters. Exceptions may apply in certain situations; you may wish to consult an attorney in these cases.
What if death occurs in the night or on a holiday?
We are available 24 hours a day, even on weekends and holidays. Do not hesitate to call anytime you need us.
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What if death occurs out of town or out of State?
We suggest that you contact us immediately regardless of where death occurs. We are experienced in making arrangements for transportation and can obtain necessary out of state services at minimal cost as your agent.
Should children attend funerals?
The answer to this question depends on the child's age and level of understanding. Usually children should be allowed to attend the funeral service if they express interest in doing so. Children are generally curious about death and funerals. It is a good idea to try to answer their questions simply and honestly. Take their questions at "face value". It is easy for adults to read too much into what the children say or ask. It may be helpful to make special time to give the child's questions and concerns complete attention. Often, children are interested in going to the funeral home visitation. This can be a constructive time spent with the child. Without the distractions of the home, questions about death and the funeral can be talked about as they arise. This can also be a helpful time to discuss what will happen at the funeral and whether the child is interested in attending. The actual funeral service can be a hectic and difficult time for us to give full attention to our children's questions. We maintain a collection of materials devoted to grief issues for both children and adults. Our children experience sorrow and grief on their individual level. We can aid you in exploring ways to promote a healthy response to loss.
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